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Alove and kicking Irish matchmakers reveal 'massive surge' in enquiries from single people over lockdown

'there's a mass exodus from online dating, people are absolutely fed up with dealing with people who aren't interested in the same things'


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Irish matchmakers say they have experienced a lockdown boom with enquiries from single people more than doubling over the last year.

Matchmakers claim singletons are increasingly turning away from online dating site, like Tinder, as they look for love.

Speaking to Down to Business with Bobby Kerr on Newstalk, Feargal Harrington, Co-Founder of Intro Matchmaking, said demand is booming.

His business - based on Grafton Street - operates nationwide and has been in bsuiness for more than ten years.

Intro Matchmaking currently have 5,000 people on the books between the ages of 20 and 90, and say they are turning away dozens of people every week.

"Lockdown has done an awful lot for dating, in the last 16 months we have seen a massive surge in enquiries," Mr Harrington said.

"June just gone was up 150% year on year, 50% up on the biggest month we've ever had.

"It's down to two reasons: 80% of people used to meet their partner either via college, work or socialising.

"Now with e-learning, remote working, the organic opportunities [have diminished].

"Also there's a mass exodus from online dating, people are absolutely fed up with dealing with people who aren't interested in the same things."

He added: "We turn away 20 people a day, we turn away more people than we take on every single day because we deal in reality.

"We're a nationwide service and we deal with people who are looking for long-term relationships but there's twice as many women living in urban areas as men.

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"When a woman is on a dating app and she's looking at a 15-kilometre radius, the reason why she's not meeting anyone is because she's not casting her net wide enough.

"We base all our policies on stats, facts and figures. We're a realistic agency not dealing in fluff so we take on people who are looking for long-term relationships who are willing to make the effort.

"We turn away people not because we want to but because we know we can't find them a match."

Bill Phelan, Co-Owner and Managing Director of Perfect Partner also claimed the last year has been "very difficult for people"

He explained that his business is aimed at Dubliners only, and this focus on one region has its advantages for daters.

"They couldn't meet, we couldn't meet people, that was the problem," Mr Phelan said.

"Ours is a very personal service in that we meet everyone, we spend up to two hours with them but when the restrictions became as they were, it was impossible to sit down with them.

"We totally focus on Dublin, one of the most important things that we have learned over the last 18 months is how important community is.

"This is the key for us, all of our members live in Dublin, they only want to meet people from Dublin, they don't want to travel.

"The advantage of dating local is that when you're introduced to someone, they know where Insomnia coffee is in the Stephen's Green Centre, they know where the Aviva Stadium is, they know where Vicar St is, they have a whole lot in common.

"So when they sit down having been introduced, they have so much there in common."

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