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My man wants to have sex with me on a €2,000 rug

Sort your sexual problems with honest and practical tips from Dr Angela Brokmann

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Sex on a rug is adventurous but it can be uncomfortable.

Sex on a rug is adventurous but it can be uncomfortable.

Many men like a woman in a wet t-shirt.

Many men like a woman in a wet t-shirt.

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Sex on a rug is adventurous but it can be uncomfortable.

Dear Angela: My boyfriend (33) spent almost €2,000 on a new rug for our bedroom. He put it in front of the fireplace, making that corner of our room so cosy that we often stretch out on the rug to watch telly or to have a chat and a cuddle. Last night my boyfriend tried to go further and have sex with me on the rug; he said he’d always wanted to do that and that it’s his hottest sexual fantasy. I didn’t play along. The last time I had sex on a rug I ended up with nasty carpet burns all over my back, and I don’t fancy a repeat of that. My boyfriend said he’d let me get on top, but I don’t fancy carpet burns on my knees either. Is there a better position? Answer: There is no perfect position for sex on a rug. Whatever you go for, one or even both of you are likely to end up with friction burns, unless you make love standing up and that’s surely not what your boyfriend is dreaming about. To save your own skin, stretch out on your boyfriend from top to toe when you make love. Your boyfriend’s back will have a tough time in this position, so please make sure that your man knows what he’s getting himself into.

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Many men like a woman in a wet t-shirt.

Many men like a woman in a wet t-shirt.

Many men like a woman in a wet t-shirt.

I want her to wear a wet t-shirt

Dear Angela: In August my girlfriend (25) and I (36) spent 10 days in a posh hotel in Mykonos. The first day my girlfriend got sunburn; it was so bad that she had to wear a t-shirt at the pool next day.
After a couple of hours she went for a quick dip to cool off, and when she came back out of the water I couldn’t believe my eyes. The t-shirt was all wet and almost see-through, and it was clinging to her body. The view literally took my breath away. When she caught me staring she just shook her head and said I’m weird.
Now I can’t get the image of my girl in this wet top out of my head. I’d love her to wear a t-shirt in the shower for me, but I’m afraid to ask for it because I know she’d find that strange too.
Answer: Don’t worry about your girlfriend’s remark.
When she said you’re weird she surely meant it in a joking way. The wet t-shirt look is extremely sexy, that’s why people in wet tops clinging to their skin are one of the most popular scenes in erotic photography.
Tell your girlfriend how sexy she looked in her wet t-shirt, and how much you’d love to see that gorgeous view again.
There’s a good chance that she’ll play along.

Threesome on trip?

Query: I (28) am going on a four-day trip with two guys from work. There’s a lot of sexual tension between us, and I’m sure that something will happen on the trip — hopefully a threesome. Will we need condoms? What are the rules?
Answer: The basic rules are quite simple: all guys need to wear a condom, and the condom needs to be changed whenever they move from one partner to another.

Handjob nerves

Query: My boyfriend (21) wants a handjob. I (24) tried, but my boyfriend always stares at my hands when I touch him and that makes me so nervous and uncomfortable that I have to stop. Any tips?

Answer: Turn the light off. Or snuggle up to your boyfriend from behind then move your arms around him to tease his bits. Your boyfriend can stare at the action but you won’t see him staring.

Email your problems to

  • Dr Angela Brokmann dr.angela@sundayworld.com
  • Maura O’Neill maura.oneill@sundayworld.com

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