Sex talk Dear Dr Angela: My girlfriend moans too loudly during sex
Open-minded and practical, Dr Angela Brokmann has answered the nation's sex problems for 18 years. Here, she answers you dilemmas.
My girlfriend (32) and I (45) have lots of fun in bed. She's always eager to experiment and try something new; she knows all the tricks and she's never too tired for sex. There is only one thing that's bothering me: she makes too much noise. It's not just little sexy moans, she moans at full volume, and her screams are loud enough to wake the neighbours. I wouldn't mind if all that noise was a genuine expression of passion, but I'm sure she's putting on a show. It sounds so fake that it puts me off. I'm afraid to tell her because I don't want to hurt her feelings.
ANGELA SAYS: It's possible that your girl's moans are indeed expressions of pleasure that just sound fake for some reason. More likely, she indeed puts on a show to please you. As it obviously fails to impress you, you need to let your girlfriend know. Keep in mind that nobody likes criticism, so don't criticise, just give constructive feedback.
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