Dear Angela: 'Peeping Toms' are spoiling our car sex fun

Dear Angela: My lover (46) and I (48) like a bit of an adventure so once or twice a month we meet in a public place like the beach or a remote parking spot.

We love the thrill of it, but the last couple of times it was spoiled by ‘peeping Toms’, guys who literally came up to our car window to peep in. One guy even took pictures of us on his phone. It’s so annoying.

We had found this lovely place on the internet, it was like a secret tip, and the first couple of times we went we loved it.

But then these perverts showed up. We went to another spot that had been recommended as being quiet and secluded, but the same thing happened. Is there any point in trying another secret tip?

Answer: Not really. If you follow ‘secret tips’ on the internet, there is a very good chance that you end up in a place that’s overrun by like-minded souls.

And places where people meet for sex in public inevitably attract people who like to watch — or ‘peep’. If you want some privacy, look for your own secluded spot.

Check it out properly to see what’s going on there. Go for a place where you won’t bother anybody, and go at night time to make sure there are no kids around.

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