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Sex Talk Dear Angela: My husband wants to try strap-on sex, should I agree?

'My first reaction was to shout 'no way', but then I thought that was a bit harsh'

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Open-minded and practical, Dr Angela Brokmann has answered the nation's sex problems for 18 years. Here, she answers your dilemmas.

My husband of 16 years asked me to make love to him with a strap-on dildo. I (38) am not sure how I feel about this.

My first reaction was to shout 'no way', but then I thought that was a bit harsh. And to be completely honest, now that I've had a few days to think about it, the idea actually sounds pretty interesting.

It would certainly shake up our usual roles in the bedroom, but I'm afraid to take that step as it's a far cry from what I always believed to be normal. Should I give it a try anyway? What do you think?

And did you ever come across a woman who did it and liked it?

ANSWER

Yes and yes; if you find your husband's idea appealing give it a try. While strap-on sex is not the most popular sex game of Irish couples, there are many people out there who like it.

A strap-on gives you a lot of control, and many women enjoy this shift of power. It can also be an extremely intimate experience as the game requires a lot of trust. The point of sex is to share intimate moments and to give and receive pleasure, and while you might be content with standard sex, it can be even more fun to explore your adventurous and kinky sides.

So go for it, get a strap-on and treat your husband to a good tease.


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