SNOOZEFEST Dear Angela: My boyfriend broke up with me over one night of boring sex

'I'd like to show him that I can do much better, but he doesn't want us to get back together. How can he be so stupid?'

One in five men lose interest after boring sex

Dr Angela Brokmann

May 09 2022 11:20 AM

Dear Angela, after only two months my boyfriend (26) split up with me - over text.

He only said that he can't see me anymore, but he didn't explain why.

I couldn't understand where I went wrong. I even had sex with him although I wasn't really ready to do it at the time.

A few days after the break-up I finally rang him to ask why he dumped me, and he said that I was boring in bed.

I can't believe that he broke up with me after only one night of boring sex. I mean, nobody does that.

I know I didn't give my best when we slept together, but that's only because I wasn't ready for sex yet.

I'd like to show him that I can do much better, but he doesn't want us to get back together. How can he be so stupid?

Answer: For one out of five men bad sex is a reason to split up with somebody.

It might not make much sense, but some guys go the easy way and move on to the next partner instead of making an effort to make their relationship work.

Don't try to get your ex back with promises of better sex - he doesn't deserve it, and you'd only get hurt even worse in the end. My advice is try to get him out of your head.