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SEX TALK Ask Dr Angela: We've been together four months and I haven't orgasmed once

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Open-minded and practical, Dr Angela Brokmann has answered the nation's sex problems for 18 years. Here, she answers you dilemmas.

Dear Angela,

I (35) can't climax when I sleep with my partner. We've been together for four months now, and I didn't even come once yet. We always have a long foreplay and my partner keeps stimulating my clitoris later on during intercourse. But although I showed him exactly what to do he never gets it right. Sometimes his touch is too rough, and it's always too erratic. He can make me come with a vibrator, but that doesn't really work during intercourse, it's too awkward. Is there another toy we could use, something smaller maybe?

ANGELA SAYS:

Sure - get a finger tingler, a tiny vibrator. Attached to your man's hand with a ring or small clamp, the tingler sends out teasing vibes. All your partner needs to do is hold the toy against the right spot. If your partner can handle a full-sized vibrator, he should manage the finger tingler as well, so give it a try.

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