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Sex talk Ask Dr Angela: My one-night stand proved my husband is no good in bed

"The guy’s touch was magic, he knew exactly what I needed and I had not only one orgasm but three. I wish my husband was that good, but he isn’t"

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A few helpful pointers never go astray in the bedroom.

A few helpful pointers never go astray in the bedroom.

A few helpful pointers never go astray in the bedroom.

Open-minded and practical, Dr Angela Brokmann has answered the nation's sex problems for 18 years. Here, she answers your dilemmas.

Dear Angela: Last Saturday I (29) had my first ever one-night stand. My husband (37) was away for the weekend and I met up with some friends at our local. One of the girls brought her brother along.

I’d never met this guy before, but we hit it off on the spot and we spent the night together. We had mind-blowing sex; it was by far the best sex I’ve ever had. The guy’s touch was magic, he knew exactly what I needed and I had not only one orgasm but three. I wish my husband was that good, but he isn’t.

Although we’ve been married for eight years he still doesn’t know what I need in bed. Now that I finally experienced how good sex can be I’m determined to turn my husband into a better lover. I thought I could start with buying him a good sex book, but maybe he’s a bit old for sex education. What do you think?

Answer: There is no age limit for a bit of sex education, so go for it. You should also tell your husband what you like in bed.

Don’t expect him to sense your needs by instinct, that’s not going to happen. Tell or show him what he should do for you. For inspiration, get that sex book and study it together.

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