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sex talk Ask Dr Angela: Is armpit sex some new craze?


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Open-minded and practical, Dr Angela Brokmann has answered the nation's sex problems for 18 years. Here, she answers your dilemmas.

Dear Angela,

My lover (48) treated me to a sex game that was new to me - he put his penis into my armpit and then pushed in and pulled out like he was making love to me. It felt weird, but he seemed to love it. He even came that way. I don't mind doing him sexual favours, I mean, he's doing everything for me that I ask.

I'm just wondering whether armpit sex is a new craze. I've been sexually active for more than 30 years, and nobody ever did it to me before. So it surely must be a new thing. Or I've been living under a rock all that time, one or the other.

Angela says:

Armpit sex is one of the less common sexual practices out there, but it's certainly not a new craze. It has been around forever. Armpit sex - also called axillary sex - has not much appeal from a female point of view, but it can be good fun for the male partner: being a soft, warm and moist enclosed space, the armpit is not the worst place ever for a bit of teasing.

Dear Angela,

Last night my fiancé (29) decided that he'd like to try and find my G-spot, but he couldn't locate it. He tried for ages, but wherever he poked around, it all felt the same to me. There was no magic area, no hidden pleasure spot that drove me crazy.

To be honest, I don't even believe that this G-spot really exists, because when I checked for it myself years ago I couldn't find it either. Or maybe there is a G-spot and I just don't have one. My fiancé is still determined to find it, but I think he's wasting his time. I don't even know where this G-spot is supposed to be.

Angela says:

It's still controversial whether the G-spot exists or not - some women swear they have this magic pleasure spot, but most are pretty sure that it's nothing but a myth.

If your fiancé wants to search for it again, give him directions: the G-spot is supposed to be located on the front vaginal wall, a couple of inches from the vaginal entrance. The best position for a G-spot hunt is girl on top, as the position allows you to experiment with different angles of penetration by leaning forward or back. You might never find the G-spot, but you can have a lot of fun trying. Just don't take the task too seriously.

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