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SEX TALK Ask Dr Angela: I haven't slept with a man in months, I prefer playing with myself


Open-minded and practical, Dr Angela Brokmann has answered the nation's sex problems for 18 years. Here, she answers your dilemmas.

Dear Angela,

Although I (31) haven't slept with a man since March I can honestly say that I have a happy sex life. I masturbate once or twice a week; it's usually well planned and I always have a good time. Sometimes I have a romantic bubble bath by candle light and with a waterproof vibrator for company. Or I touch myself while watching a romantic movie. When I'm in a more adventurous mood I masturbate in my car or under a blanket on my balcony. I'm happy the way things are, but my friends think I'm crazy.

They can't understand that I rather have fun by myself than mess around with guys I don't really fancy.

They find the whole masturbation thing weird; most of the girls claim they don't do it at all, and only one admitted that she does it the odd time, but only when she's desperate. They even felt uncomfortable talking about it. Is what I'm doing really that strange?


No. Most girls masturbate at least the odd time, usually in their own home, but it happens in other places as well. For example, one out of ten women has done it in a car.

But masturbation is still one of those things that even the closest friends usually don't talk about in detail. You are more open and kinky-minded than the average girl, but that's fine. And it's admirable to plan ahead and enjoy masturbation in romantic or kinky settings; it beats quick relief under the sheets.

  • Have you got a dilemma? Get in touch! Email dr.angela@sundayworld.com.

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