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JUST FOR KICKS Ask Dr Angela: He wants me to kick him in the balls for a kinky fantasy

"He got down in front of me naked, on his hands and knees, and then asked me to kick him in the balls really hard"

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Some people get a sexual thrill from pain

Some people get a sexual thrill from pain

Some people get a sexual thrill from pain

Sort your sexual problems with honest and practical tips from Dr Angela Brokmann

Dear Angela,

My boyfriend (43) and I (35) decided to spice up our sex life.

We started with the usual stuff like new positions, sexy lingerie and a bit of bondage.

It was so much fun that we agreed to fulfil each others’ kinkiest fantasy next.

I asked my boyfriend to play a toy boy for a night; he was so good at it that I got carried away and almost believed that he was the 20-year-old stud he pretended to be.

When it was my boyfriend’s turn to make a wish I got a bit of a shock: he got down in front of me naked, on his hands and knees, and then asked me to kick him in the balls really hard.

I couldn’t do that. I’m a nurse and I know that kicking a man’s balls can cause serious harm.

Still, my boyfriend wants me to go for it. How can I get out of this without letting him down?

Answer: Kicking a man’s testicles can cause serious harm so it’s perfectly OK if you refuse to play along.

Go for a compromise instead, and just tease your boyfriend’s testicles with your feet. Put some pressure on but make sure you don’t go too far.

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If your boyfriend is really keen on a kick, kick a less vulnerable part of his body, like his bum.

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