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I want old life with ex back

Problem PagesBy Maura O'Neill
I want old life with ex back

Dear Maura

I’M A 34-year-old woman who is just going through the motions in my life because I’ve let everything that could make me happy slip away.

I was married to a lovely man, but I couldn’t be happy with what I had. Along comes the man I thought was perfect and he turned out to be a selfish, spoiled brat.

Now I long to be with my ex again. He took care of me, but I was too stupid to see that. His family and mine barely speak to me. We aren’t divorced yet and I would love to tell him I made a mistake and beg him to take me back. Should I try to get my old life back?

 MAURA SAYS: There is such a thing as a second chance, but you have to fight for it and that’s what you need to do here.

You left your ex-husband, but that shouldn’t mean you can’t ask for forgiveness.

If you don’t try to make amends, say you are sorry and admit you made a terrible mistake, then you will never know.

The best thing to do is to ask your ex to meet and tell him how sorry you are and that you now know you were wrong. I just hope you are not the kind of person who always feels the grass is greener on the other side.